First of all, there are not very many rules at my house. We play it pretty fast and loose out here on the Fox Lake Road.
I do try. After a little excessive spending toward the end of last year, I made a rule: “No unnecessary purchases this year.” That hardly lasted a week. Deciding my purse was a bit small, I found another at the resale shop. Only two dollars, that hardly counts, I told myself. When that one didn’t work out, I donated it back and bought another, also only two dollars. Then the cover for my bullet journal, purchased in December as part of my end-of-year buying blitz, arrived in the mail. With the cover on it, I need a larger bag to accommodate it. So, I donated the second purse back, and went on-line to find a purse that will work.
I intend to double the distance I walk this year, and started the month with a renewed plan to walk every single day. We’re not even at the end of January, and I’ve already missed two days! In an effort to get my blogging back on track, I determined that this year I would post a blog every third day. Yesterday, I came home tired and let that commitment go right out the window, too.
I think I’m not much of a “rules” person. That’s my thought…though my daughters would tell quite a different story! Maybe I’m just not big on regulating my own actions. Still, there are a few behaviors that I adhere to almost without fail. These are the rules of my house.
- I make the bed every day. That wasn’t always the case, but now I can’t imagine ever having an unmade bed.
- I start each morning with a list of things I am thankful for. This helps me to appreciate the good things in my life, and gets my day off to a good start.
- I recycle anything that can be recycled, and compost anything that can be composted.
- Whenever the dogs go outside and come back in, they get a treat. Even if one of them (Rosa Parks!) goes out-and-in a dozen times in an hour (ignoring me when I ask “Rose, did you even pee?”) because it’s the only game she remembers…and because she loves those rewards. For this reason, I’ve had to drastically reduce the size of the treats over the years. Currently, the payment for being a “good girl” is one pea-sized bit of kibble.
- Similarly (because it seems that my dogs do like rules), the dogs get fed before I sit down to my own dinner, Darla always has to lick the spoon that I use to stir their food, and I have to sing to them when I put down their dishes. Not a whole song or anything, just a little rhyming ditty to let them know it’s dinnertime. They expect it. If I happen to be on the telephone, and just put down their meal without singing, they just stare at me, unsure of what they’re supposed to do.
- Whenever, for whatever reason, whether frustration or a stubbed toe, I exclaim, “Oh, Lord…” I have to follow up with the rest of the song, “…won’t cha buy me a Mercedes Benz…” preferably in my best approximation of the voice of Janis Joplin.
- I always do the dishes before I go to bed.
- I read before turning out the light to go to sleep.
That’s about it. These are the things that keep my life moving steadily along. Nothing much, but important anyway: the rules of my house.
Your rules are so like mine, with the exception of your interface with your dogs. Unfortunately, no dogs here. But rules are quite often broken But these days I dont beat myself about them. Life is for living.
Like you, I don’t beat myself up about broken rules. The things that made my list are – more accurately – habits, so ingrained that I don’t even think about them. Thanks for reading, Judith, and for your comments!
These seem like reasonable, maybe even fun, rules to live by!
Yes, I thought of them and wrote them down more in the spirit of fun. If they were truly “rules,” I would probably break them! Thanks for reading, Dawn, and for your comments!